My Advice to the just-graduated SS3 students

Now that you are done with high school, i want you to keep connecting with those friends that you graduated together with. Why? the reason is, the world is now based on CONNECTIONS. You see some of you guys will turn big girls and big boys now that you are done with the high school which is fine but don’t let it make you lose your HUMBLENESS. From my personal experience, those who always come out successful and popular are those that are seen as nothing back then in secondary school, “yes, they are the one” those ones that you won’t want to talk to or you don’t answer them when they greet you.

Degrees and Connections are like a woman with her menstruation, one can’t move forward to giving birth to success without the other.

You see in this world that we live in you need connections to do so many things, having connections has become the normal thing. Having a connection is so powerful that “a man with School certificate + connections will be awarded or giving a contract or job before a man with degrees without connections. Believe me many of your old school mate will grow up and become very successful, its not possible that all of you will remain poor for ever.

1- Friendly to almost all your old school mates

2- Checking up on them once in awhile even if they dont check up on you

3- Selfless

4- Humble

5- Be helpful

6- Always greet them first- this is very important, any where you see your old school mates, no matter how well dressed you are, whatever positions you are, call them first and greet them, chat with them, exchange contacts with them.

7- fix a date with them and have a drink togther.

With these you make connections, you have informations about things Happening.

I will discuss more about this in my book titled How to start a better life after Secondary School thank you